All of you are aware that I’m a strong believer in female power and purpose. However, I have spent a lot of time thinking about whether it is necessary to have family, children and so on. Something happened recently in my life that has moved me to write an article directed at women who disagree with my opinion.

Let me start off by telling you: you are correct!!! Women have so many roles, you are probably correct in whatever opinion you have about them.

Unfortunately, we all live with a certain image in our heads. Specifically, we have a distorted image what society considers a successful woman. One of the reasons for this article is to clarify a few things. I am not trying to make anyone feel inferior just because they don’t have what I mostly talking about on my blog.

I can assure you that everyone can be happy and satisfied without a family, a man and etc….

Many of us want to have everything without putting in the hard work. It doesn’t work that way. I want to point out that sometimes life gives you something only when you have done the necessary work on yourself.

It’s easy to do nothing and it’s hard to work 🙂 but don’t let yourself be fooled… Being miserable and failing is easier than being successful, but true happiness is worth it in the end…

Let’s start with marriage. I do believe that being in a relationship and having a supportive man is a very important factor in a female’s life. Being with a man teaches us lessons, and helps us realize who we truly are. I want to say that for some, marriage happens later in life and that is okay. Time has shifted. Something that was was not common years ago, is completely normal now. It is absolutely normal in our era to be single even into your early to mid-30’s.

So, while you are waiting for your Prince Charming, here are a couple of things to keep in mind: First, do not wait for him to fulfill your life. You should be able to live your life to the fullest without a man.

Second, learn how to be happy on your own, without depending on someone to make you happy.  So when your Prince finally comes along, you can easily contribute happiness to the relationship instead of misery.

Some women are more society-based than family-oriented. They are extremely strong, smart, independent and really focused on moving forward… Today we see these kinds of women more and more and unfortunately, this is putting more pressure on women who want to stay family-oriented.

I want to put a disclaimer here: Some of you will automatically assume that I am talking about you. If you get offended, I want you to think carefully and ask yourself why this is your reaction. Are you being honest with yourself or do my words seem to ring true but you just can’t admit it?

Now children: I do talk a lot about children and having as many as you can, but…. some of us are not suited to have kids. Of course for those who want to focus their lives on being a mother, having children will be a life-changing experience. Motherhood can enhance a woman’s life, but there are some who are not equipped for this way of life. Their destiny is in their social circle. However, this doesn’t mean she doesn’t have children at all or becomes dominating and manly. It’s not that these women necessarily hate children or cannot be motherly. It is the opposite, these women will naturally focus their maternal instincts onto her coworkers and friends.

Being motherly does not mean she becomes their mom. It just means she thinks of others and is gentle in her relationships. All women have this instinct, but the differences lie in how we convey and incorporate it into our lives so that it best fits us.

There is no right answer on how to be a woman. We need to learn to change perspectives and really understand our own needs and act on it. Don’t let anyone make you feel miserable or not suited for the world. The purpose of this article is to show that a woman can find her own, solid place in this world, no matter what her destiny is, as long as she correctly applies her knowledge to her life.