I want to drop a couple of thoughts about self-esteem in relation to women, and its importance.

If we don’t have it, first of all, we’ll start having a bunch of problems related to the lack of it. second, we’ll refuse to acknowledge our nature without even recognizing it. And third, we can’t really have life we want to have. So where do we start? Why is it so important to have a healthy self-esteem? Many people don’t really recognize what a healthy self-esteem is.

A healthy self-esteem is when you accept your life the way it is and can truly enjoy it.

It’s not because you want to put on a feel-good mask on your face, but because you truly enjoy it from the bottom of your heart, and if you had a chance to redo things, you probably would’ve done exactly what you have in order to get to where you are today. It doesn’t mean that you don’t want to do things differently. In fact, you should be constantly looking for a change in your life because it means you’re growing, and your self-esteem is going to be more solid and deep.

You also need to accept your body the way it is. You need to be comfortable with your body and form that you got from the nature no matter what. In fact, you need to — especially — live out the parts you’re not comfortable with the most! For women, this is very important because all of us come from families where our mothers were not always gentle, and as a result we all have our painful memories don’t help us with our self-esteem at all; it is the opposite. However, this is what we should recognize, realize, work through, and fix so that life can be a ‘happily ever after’.

A healthy self-esteem helps women be calm, feminine and loving.

Do you like to be in the presence of a grumpy woman who’s constantly crummy and in a bad mood? How about a woman who smiles at you with a warm, open smile and talks to you in a soft, calm voice, and you feel the warmth that is emanating from her. Which would you prefer?

And you know what? There is no way a woman who lacks a healthy self-esteem can be that way. No one in the whole universe has that ability or capacity to play that role. It can be played for an evening but not more. We all are able to feel false, and sooner or later that game would end. Only if you are comfortable in your own skin, with your own life, with whatever is going on now, then you can transmit that feeling to others. By the way, when you have that, you feel happier.

Do you think it’s worth working on? So many women have truly lost their ways. They are not happy inside but they don’t know where and how to start their path back to at least feeling good about themselves. Think about what I say here. Maybe it resonates with you, and you decide that you don’t want to feel misery anymore, and finally be ready to work on developing healthy self-esteem 😉