More thoughts on self-esteem… Are you ready?

Do you like it when a guy buys you gifts? Can you accept it? Do you want more of these presents or have you never even received one? When I say presents, I’m not talking about gift cards or something bought last-minute just to avoid embarrassment. I’m talking about an actual thoughtful gift that was bought specifically for you…. are you one of the few who can say they receive this….?

How do you feel when you see a woman whose man has been showering her with gifts like designer clothes, cars and all sorts of jewelry? I’m going to guess you’d tell me that you don’t care about such gifts, because you’re independent and prefer to buy it yourself. But is that how you truly feel? Maybe you are a bit jealous inside? What are your true feelings? 

If you have never received a gift or have only gotten cheap gifts, then you need to think about why. A lack of self-esteem attracts men who think they don’t need to put in effort!

Another topic I’d like to talk about is compliments. How easily can you accept them? Do believe it when you hear them? Or do you have hard time with compliments and cannot accept them?

Here we are circling back to the same self-esteem situation I brought up. A woman with a healthy self-esteem would be very comfortable in accepting compliments. She won’t take the praise as a joke, but will fully appreciate the person and their complements.

Only a female who has a healthy self-esteem can give off the feeling of being girly without losing her independence. Do you know why? She knows how to respect the male nature. She knows how to let him make all the decisions without feeling criticized or humored. With this woman, he is reassured that even if he makes mistakes, he would still be the best in her eyes. Men needs this to feel even more valued…Can you give a man that sense of security? Because they need this in order to perform their best as a man.

Do you think a woman who is struggling with her self-identity and self-worth is able to provide all of this to a man? I doubt it.

She more likely to be very opinionated. This is generally not a bad thing! What’s bad is she will think that she is always right and therefore, make the man do whatever she thinks. This woman forgets that males have a different nature. She is going to be very focused on her own thoughts and actions, and not how it will affect her man.  A woman who lacks self-esteem cannot control her emotions because she will try to attract attention to feel better about herself. No one wants to be on that emotional rollercoaster!