I have made a comparison between men and women and the sun and the moon in a few of my posts.
It wasn’t a coincidence! Men and women each have a certain type of energy that our nature is based on. If we follow that basis, we usually feel happy, calm, secure, and our relationships as well as core-being are thriving. For example, the male energy – the Sun. He is very active, a breadwinner, responsible, shines, protects, etc. Therefore, if a man fulfills those traits, he feels satisfied and happy because he lives according to his nature.
On the opposite is a woman – the Moon. She helps everyone to “cool down” in her shadow after a long and exhausting day. The Moon brings calmness and relaxation. It is the one that wraps its beaming rays when one is sad.
That is the nature of women.
How many of us realize this and fulfill those energy patterns in our lives? Then we are surprised we are unhappy when we don’t. Why we are constantly exhausted? Why is our life often falling apart? Note, as an example, that an owl can see perfectly at night. It can try during the day time too, but will not hunt effectively and may die quicker than its life expectancy. Are we that different when we deny our nature?
99% of us, men and women, have completely forgotten our nature. I read a lot of comments from readers about how good it is for a woman to strive for success, that men should take care of themselves, and women should not be housekeepers for them. That women should shine with their brain on a social arena as much as possible to prove to the world she can do it. My readers comments have failed to notice, however, that statistics suggest and support that a large percentage of failed marriages are occurring in couples where a woman is very or overly educated! The failure is not that they are educated, that is absurd, but in the way that society has engraved in women’s brains that they should use their knowledge as a weapon to conquer. That they should abandon themselves and their duties and compete alongside and with men.
That is a simple statement that not many readers acknowledge nor is it a really popular opinion. However, tons of readers throw in the comments their weird facts about what a good concept equality is. Some people will tell me that women can take care of the household, and have a career. Let me break this illusion. Do you think it’s possible to be the Sun and Moon at the same time? Do you think it’s possible to be 50/50? How is that? Half a day you are acting like a man and the other half like a woman? And you really think it’s possible?
I’ll agree with you, for arguments sake. Say it is possible. How long do you think that torture will last? Do you think men can be half a man for a day, and the other half a woman? Hmmmm. How is that?
Sorry, but all of that is social media brainwashing you.
Almost in all cases, one of those energies is more dominant and because the sun’s energy is more aggressive at its nature, that is the one that usually takes charge. This is how we end up with a woman who has switched her energy from one that she was created for, to one that is completely foreign for her.
Sometimes it can even work for a while and then the woman usually starts suffering from all kinds of illnesses, such as 24/7 tiredness, apathy, and ending with cancers and infertility. Her system just breaks down. Do we take that into consideration and take responsibility? Oh no. We blame everything and everybody for why we got sick, but the culprit is in the mirror. From my experience, and I’ve seen a lot of “Sun women” and almost all of them are very successful in what they are doing, but NONE of them are happy. They try to show and prove that they are happy, but they are not! I also know a few extremely successful women who have been successful for decades, and 50 out of 60 of them truly cry their eyes out from the tiredness of doing things on their own, and being “strong”.
They would give up everything they have in order to find a “cozy shoulder to lean on”, BUT they have gotten themselves too far along on a different path from any opportunity to find that shoulder. They have killed off all femininity in themselves and it is impossible for them to find a suitable candidate. Even if they did get lucky and find one, they would not be able to let him be with them, those women will burn poor men in the strong flames of hell fire.
Let me get back to where we started and continue to show you how that different type of energy works in genders. Let’s take a look at what kind of couples emerge out of different energy patterns in relationships. Hopefully you’ll see your family pattern in one of these and recognize what areas you need to change or think about to make the pattern either stronger or change it completely.
Harmony:
He is mostly strong Sun-energy operated.
She is mostly Moon-energy operated.
Man carries total responsibility for woman and children. Woman takes care of emotional state of her family. Harmony. She listens to her man and he is a leader. In this type of family both man and woman are happy and satisfied because each of them lives according to their natural path and don’t try to break it. Usually in those types of family’s, children are raised correctly, taught how to be men and women, don’t deny their genders/roles based on mama’s and daddy’s examples – does it get better then that?
He Is The Moon:
He is operating on Moon energy.
She is operating on Sun energy.
It is not a rare example. Almost every one of us has those couples in front of us. She chooses to act like a man and the man is left only with a couple of choices: try to break that pattern and battle this until it “kills” him, or give up to “stay alive”. Sometimes, however, a man chooses to stay home and take care of the house when circumstances are pretty decent for him to do so, while his significant other is “battling with the reality” and has to be the one to provide. As we all know, it may work for a while. Family has money and comfort, but after a few years/decades she realizes that she is too tired to carry enormous responsibility on her fragile shoulders that weren’t built for that burden in the first place. He, however, also gets tired and becomes a some sort of couch potato because he is lacking any opportunity to achieve anything. For example, to win a fight, escape danger, etc. In other words, to shine like the Sun and his woman misses “cooling him down after a battle”, like a Moon.
Sun Kingdom
He operates on Sun energy.
She operates on Sun energy.
This family is in a constant fight for everything. They try to win each other’s territory, they try to compete over roles, whose opinion is the right one, and at the end of the day they are both extremely exhausted and miserable. The man doesn’t have any strength left to “battle” the world because he is constantly battling with his wife at home, and she can’t find mental and emotional peace because of the same competitions. She can’t rely on him.
Moon Kingdom:
He operates on Moon energy.
She operates on Moon energy.
I’ve seen only two or three couples like this, and both are too calm to the point of being boring. The man doesn’t want to achieve anything in that relationship, and woman also lives on some sort of auto-pilot. It is not a happy picture. Besides, what kind of a man would choose to be Moon-operated? We are talking only about traditional men. What kind of a man would surrounded himself to a boring, old every day life without fights, prizes, winnings, etc? No one in their right mind, unless there is something else going on that we may not be aware of.
In conclusion, in that short description we see that this is a woman who “violates the rules” of the game. She goes to a battlefield that is not hers to battle. And then we are surprised when we aren’t happy. What gender do you see nowadays that is less satisfied? I see women. They are the ones who have all kind of problems with their self-esteem, with themselves, with the universe.
So ladies, let me ask you this: why are we doing this to ourselves? Do we like to be miserable? Is it that much easier for us than being happy? Note: we don’t have to do much to be happy, we just need to go back to our innate nature. We have to celebrate it, enjoy it, accept it, learn about it, let us be. Let us be that Moon that drifts in and out of the sky, the Moon that is always there, the Moon that comes up when it’s her time, and cools us down. The Moon that hides behind the Sun, which makes her precious and loved.
