Loneliness comes in many shapes and forms. No matter what your physical state may be, it is possible that you could fall victim to loneliness. Just because your physically alone doesn’t mean you feel constant loneliness and just because you have someone there with you doesn’t mean you aren’t lonely. Being lonely can even be a feeling that comes to the surface over time from out of nowhere. There is no telling when it will come or what will be the cause of it. It’s important to be aware and realize that there are many stages of life where it can creep in. 

Being alone doesn’t have to go hand in hand with the feeling of loneliness. 

Being alone is all apart of the journey to reaching your happy ending. It is important to note that women can feel comfortable and satisfied even without a man and children. There is nothing wrong with being single, however, I believe that having a man is a very important part of a woman’s life.  A relationship is like a journey, and every woman should go through that journey. However, there are some things that you should do before reaching this relationship. Remember to be positive even without a man in your life and find your own hobbies. Keep the feelings of loneliness at bay by focusing on the things that bring you enjoyment rather than focusing on what it is you don’t have in life. This will help you on your road to finding yourself and ultimately starting a life with someone.

Picking the wrong person for yourself can often lead to loneliness. 

Just because you may be with someone doesn’t always mean this is the right person for you. Leading to you feeling alone. Often times people are in such a hurry to reach their end goal or to begin their life as a spouse and parent that they end up choosing someone they shouldn’t. There are many signs that come to light when you make a less than wise decision. One sign is that you can’t find your path, either by yourself or with this specific person. You are here, there, and everywhere – but nowhere at the end of the day. You are not even happy being a woman in a female body because you have no comfort and recognition. You have no spouse to bring you flowers or give something small to you that puts a smile on your face. So basically what we see here is perpetuate misery. Why don’t we want to see that once we pick the correct person with the correct intentions, our life will be completely different? It’ll blossom! It will fulfill us. It’ll bring us a completely different reality. By choosing the wrong person to be with, we are locking ourselves into feeling nothing but loneliness. Avoid being in this situation by being cautious when it comes to who you choose to invite in your life and who you choose to spend it with.

If you are feeling lonely, then take the necessary steps to get back to the happiness that you once felt. Ultimately, the only one that will be able to get out of that feeling is yourself.