Try to recall your friend who had just left the hair salon, getting the best hair-do for an upcoming event. Can you recall her mood, her energy, her movements? In most cases, it involves lots of smiles, a nice attitude towards everything and everybody, and inner awareness/satisfaction from knowing that she looks great. Yet, she is thoughtless. That woman is just enjoying the fullness from her experience; enjoyment is in every cell in her body.

This showed me that women should not think too much because they are way way better when they don’t think. 

I’m woman myself and I can say from personal experience that I sometimes torture my husband with this simple question: should I do a ponytail or let my hair down? I can go on and on about why letting it down is better than a ponytail. My husband will tell me “okay, let it down” and then I’ll start the whole story all over again by saying that a ponytail is better. See? This is simply in our nature, and that’s perfectly fine. We just need to learn more about ourselves, not feel guilty about moments like these, and explain to our significant other what we’re thinking whenever they give us that puzzled ‘OMG’ look.

Why do we as women do this? Simple. It’s because of the structure of the female brain compels women to worry when she starts to think. She worries about money, about rent, about her looks, if she said the right things, what if she were single, what if someone died, what if something bad happened, what if it rained and she didn’t have an umbrella with her, so on and so forth.

Why is this? I want to start off by describing the energy flow in a man’s and a woman’s body. 

In men, energy goes from top to bottom. That’s why men need and do a lot of thinking; they are very logical because of that energy flow. Even their bodies exemplify its structure: their wide shoulders and small torso tells us that their energy flows from head to toe. Women’s, however, flow in the opposite direction. Energy goes from bottom to top because she gets energy from the earth; that’s why many of us feel great when we wear skirts. Our body structure is also the opposite to men’s: we have wide hips and small shoulders to fill ourselves with energy through the earth.

If you think about it, when a woman doesn’t think she makes everyone around her — her man and her family — happy. Giving her the power to change and alter the mood in a room. Who doesn’t want that? Uncontrollable thoughts are stealing our future and basically prevents us from living today. That begs the question: when are we going to live? Now. Stop thinking because us as women have the ability to stop thinking and let men do all of it. We can just enjoy the ride, trust our instincts and enjoy life. I bet most of us would be happier, and have what we want in life.