What do his gifts say about you?

Do you like it when a man buys you gifts? Do you accept it? Do you want more, or have you even received one? When I say gifts, I’m not talking about gift cards or something bought last-minute just to avoid embarrassment. I’m talking about an actual thought-out gift that was bought specifically for you and which caters to your preferences. Are you one of the few who can say they receive gifts like these?

How do you feel when you see a woman whose man has been showering her with gifts like designer clothes, cars, and expensive jewelry? I’m going to guess you’re going to tell me that you don’t care about such presents, because you’re independent and prefer to buy them yourself and not take advantage of the other person. But is that how you truly feel? Maybe, you are a bit jealous inside? How do you really feel? You should, perhaps, think about this:

If You Have Never Received A Gift Or Have Only Received Cheap Gifts, Then You Need To Think About Why. A Low Self-Esteem Attracts Men Who Think They Don’t Need To Put In Effort!

Another topic I’d like to talk about is compliments. How easily can you accept them? Do believe it when you hear them? Or do you have hard time with compliments and refuse to accept them?

Here we are circling back to the same self-esteem situation I brought up. A woman with a healthy self-esteem would be very comfortable in accepting compliments. She won’t take praise as a joke or sarcasm, but will fully appreciate the person and their compliments.

Only a female who has a high self-esteem can give off the vibe of being girly, without losing her independence. Do you know why? She knows how to respect the male nature. She knows how to let him make all the decisions without feeling belittled or offended. With this type of woman, he is reassured that even if he makes mistakes, he would still be the best in her eyes. Men need this to feel even more valued. They need reassurance that they can make all the decisions, and be trusted that those are the best decisions. Can you give a man that sense of security? Because they need this in order to perform their best as a man.

Do You Think A Woman Who Is Struggling With Her Self-Identity And Self-Worth Is Able To Provide All Of This To A Man? I Doubt It.

She is more likely to be very opinionated and want things done her way. This is generally not a bad thing! What is bad is she will think that she is always right and therefore, make the man do whatever she wants. Women forget that males have a different nature and different needs. She is going to be very focused on her own thoughts and actions, and not how it could potentially affect her man. A woman who lacks self-esteem cannot control her emotions as she is more likely to display them, in order to try to attract attention to feel better about herself. No one wants to be on that emotional rollercoaster!