I’ve been asked so many times about how to make a guy want to marry a woman that I decided it was time to help. 

You can use whatever methods you would like, however, mine has been proven on numerous occasions. 

A woman should be looking for a husband. She should be allowing a man to court her without expectations. She should allow a man to show himself and prove that he is willing to grow and change for her.  They don’t exist as a pre-made package. You must know your needs and also look for potential. You also should make yourself be confident as this is something men will notice. 

Men are actively pursuing women

We should accept their pursuit.  You should be able to see the effort that a man puts into pursuing you. It shouldn’t be the other way around. A man should come up with flowers, surprises, and much more to get your attention.  Moreover, he will always feel like he “earned” you. He will then take your relationship to a different level.

This period should be around a year. Seven years would be too long and one week is too short.  Ideally, it should be from 6 months to a year.

While you are waiting for a man to come into your life, you need to live as if you already have a man. What does that mean? It means you should learn how to enjoy your life. It’s not like a man will come into your life and just make you happy.  Instead, you should be happy, and then he will come. Just enjoy everything you have while waiting. But at the same time, learn how to keep your home clean. 

Start cleaning on a daily basis.

You are not going to live in a dirty house with your husband, right? Start taking as many showers as you would’ve if you had a man next to you. Start putting on light makeup as if he is next to you.  Allow yourself to enjoy friends and all kinds of events.  Your man will want to join in on these interesting activities with you.  Men love a happy, confident woman.

Women shouldn’t feel rushed in a sexual relationship.

She should always feel comfortable around the man she is talking to.  Men learn to respect a woman’s body and not take sex for granted. Don’t sell yourself short because you are in a rush to have a significant other. A woman should not feel the need to do something she does not want to do if a man provides dinner for her.  It’s his desire to invite you and go out with you.  

Don’t try to be comfortable for him.

The more you do that, the less he will respect and appreciate you. You need to praise him every time he reaches one of his goals. However, if he is behaving badly, you shouldn’t tolerate it. Walk away. It doesn’t mean that you leave him but walk away to give him something to think about.  Don’t give him tons of presents. It’s not our role.  Buying a lot of things for a man can be perceived as attempting to buy his love. He should know that making a mistake is normal if he feels remorse. He will correct his behavior.

Start learning how to avoid mistakes.

Another thing that we need to talk about is how a woman can get tired in a relationship.  Because if he whines constantly, she will want to help and may end up getting a job.  In a female body is a man and in a male body is a woman. 

Having a woman work hard is a big mistake. That is why we have so much male energy around and why we have difficulties with pregnancies and other things.

In order for a woman to be calm and happy, she should be acting like a woman.

Another rule is to basically honor every man’s attempt at getting your attention. Just allow a man to court you. You never know when you may like a man. He may not look like yours but he actually may be.  Besides, even if that date won’t lead to anything, a man like that will teach you about yourself. You don’t have to get married if you say yes to a date. You need to give him an opportunity to see if he is a good fit.

Being one’s Self

That all leads me to another important quality. A woman has to be herself. She needs to know what she wants and work for it.  A woman can live for years trying to make her man happy and fulfill his desires while not even knowing her own. It is related to self-esteem, unfortunately. 

A man should please a woman because if she is happy, then he will be happy.  Another huge topic I want to touch on is analyzing the past. Just forget about it. Take the necessary lessons and move on.  I’m sure many of you are going to hate me now, but a woman should be passive! She shouldn’t be calling or being active in any way. He should be the one calling, thinking, and so on.  Don’t try to talk about things. 

Just chill and be observant. Let things unfold.  If you are too active, then your man would be passive.  We deliver kids, we take care of ourselves, kids, households, our and his parents, friends, and so on.  

Let your man be active in a relationship.

We are active, but it is a different type of responsibility.  Start learning how to create or build happy relationships. Read books and listen to people who have succeeded in this area. Don’t try to figure it all out.  Take the worldly experience and use it! It’ll benefit you all your life. However, the more you learn, the more humble you must be. Don’t postpone your life until later.  It’s a big mistake to think that you can look for a man later.  If you want to be successful, do it now. Now is the best time to start.  You may be 50 when you are ready.  

While you’ll be waiting for your Prince Charming, you won’t be able to have kids and it may end up being too late.