Aging. It’s not that I’ve thought about it, it’s more like I’ve never thought about it. Even though I’ve always had girlfriends and people around me who were obsessed with the way they looked I didn’t understand at the time or questioned it since I thought “it’s ok” because I didn’t have that problem. I [...]
Traditions. What does that mean to you? What thoughts do you start having after you read this? Did it trigger something in your memory? What Are Traditions? When I hear the word “traditions” it evokes so many feelings, memories, and thoughts. It touches me so deeply that sometimes I feel like I’m on a different [...]
Every year around this time I notice people becoming more anxious. All kinds of anxieties. Clouded Minds Some people are all of a sudden feeling more lonely than at other times of the year; other people jump into “I’d better hurry otherwise this year is almost gone”… and they make all kinds of irrational decisions. [...]
This is an essay about bad language. Although the word is not used often, bad language is often referred to by the slang term “cussing” or more specifically: cursing. Cursing is exactly that. Casting a Spell You are casting a curse or a spell with your language. Keep in mind that I am a second-language [...]
How often are we told that we must live in the here and now, and not in the past or future? In my private discussions, I often give people the same advice. It’s easy to get lost in whose goal I am trying to achieve, and if it is even my own. It is easy [...]
Bang bang, shoot shoot. Yet another one of our great families goes down. How many of you have been listening to the constant news and want to hide your face in your palm and cry? Why? Because of the shooting of innocent people. The killing of children who haven’t seen or lived enough. The killing of [...]
One of the biggest reasons people have difficulty in their relationships, sometimes even without an actual problem, is because of emotional dependence. This can be anything from a dependency from family members, loved ones, people we know, to even our friends' moods. For instance some relationship examples could be: She’s in a good mood and she [...]
Lately the way women have become so dismissive about their positions as a stay at home wife and mother has been on my mind. Many women have come to think of it as a punishment that they have incurred and this is their life. They take no pride in being a woman. Recently one of my [...]
Many of us have had those relationships where the sex is fantastic in the beginning. You and your partner are really close, you constantly talk and spend your time together, but after a little while, it all fades. All of a sudden questions start to rise to the surface like, “How come he isn’t paying any [...]
Ask Your Man for Help Lately, proud women have been leaving comments about things ranging from “I don’t need a man to feel important or to validate me” to “A man’s not a real man unless he does what I tell him to do”. When I read these comments I decided to share my perspective on [...]
