Men are the Sun & Women are the Moon
Men and women both have energies based on their nature. When we realize this it can make us more fulfilled in our relationships and our roles therein, and our overall happiness, peace, and security in that relationship will begin to grow stronger.
The male energy relates to the Sun. He is very active, responsible, protective, and is the breadwinner. When he lives according to his nature and fulfills those traits, he feels satisfied and happy.
Alternatively the woman relates to the Moon. She helps everyone to relax and cool down after a long and exhausting day. The moon brings calmness and relaxation, wrapping up the beaming rays of the sun in her cool embrace and comforting and consoling when sad or upset.
How many of you realize and fulfill those rolls pertaining to your energy pattern in your life?
Many who don’t fulfill their role are surprised to find themselves unhappy with their lives because they are constantly exhausted, and feel like their life is falling apart. An owl who can see perfectly at night isn’t surprised it can’t see as well during the day. This is why it sticks to the night where its eyesight is keen and it can hunt effectively and efficiently. Why should we be any different?
99% of both men and women have completely forgotten their nature.
Many comments from my readers have stated that it is good for a woman to be successful and work towards that success, and that men should be able to take care of themselves and women should not be reduced to glorified maids. Other comments state that a woman’s intelligence should be allowed to shine in any social arena so that they can prove that they can do anything a man can. My readers have unfortunately failed to take into account that statistics support and suggest that a good amount of failed marriages occur in relationships where the woman is educated or overly educated! The issue has obviously little or nothing to do with whether a woman is educated or not, that would be absolutely absurd! The problem is that society has impressed upon women and got it in their heads that they need to use knowledge as a weapon to be a conqueror, and in order to do so they need to abandon who they are and their duties to compete alongside men.
This is not a popular opinion and is a statement that many may not want to acknowledge. However, so many readers post in the comments numerous random and weird facts pertaining to what they think a good example of equality is. Other people tell me that women can do both, take care of the household and have a career. Sorry to break it to you. No. The Sun and the Moon will never be the same entity. Acting like a man half of the day and acting like a woman the other half is not a viable, sustainable possibility.
For argument’s sake, I’ll agree with you for a moment. Let’s say it is actually possible. How long do you think you will be able to maintain that amount of torture for? Having to perform two full time job positions and switching roles as if they were hats on your head is not something that should be done for any amount of time. This is why you have a partner, who does the hard work of making the money, and you do the hard work of keeping the house and the children in line and you balance each other out, just like the Sun and the Moon.
Sorry you’re being brainwashed by social media
In just about every case, one energy is more dominant than the other. The one that usually takes charge is the Sun because it’s generally more aggressive. This is where we may encounter a woman who has changed her energy from one that she was created to have, to one that is foreign to her.
This relationship may even work for a while, however this foreign energy the woman is trying to utilize on a daily basis will eventually start to take its toll. She will begin to suffer from many different kinds of sicknesses like being tired all the time, apathy, and may result in cancer and infertility. Her system will begin to just break down from the inside out. Unfortunately, they don’t take this into consideration and when the sickness strikes they blame everything and everyone else for their misfortune, when the real culprit is staring back at them from the mirror.
In my experience I’ve seen many “Sun Women” and the majority are incredibly successful in their endeavors, but NONE of them are happy. They try to show and prove that they are happy but they are not! They’re miserable! I know of multiple extremely successful women, 90% of them have come to me crying their eyes out from exhaustion and are distraught from being alone and having to be strong all the time.
These strong independent women would give up everything they have just to have a warm shoulder to lean on, but now it’s too late! They have embarked too far down their own path, too far away from any chance or opportunity to find that shoulder. They have destroyed any and all femininity that resided within themselves which hinders any chance for them to find a suitable candidate. Even on the off chance that they got lucky enough to find someone, they would get in their own way by not letting him be the Sun to her Moon. These women would burn those poor men to ashes with the white hot flames of hellfire!
Each relationship will follow a different energy pattern and different kinds of couples will emerge depending on the energy patterns in the relationship. You may even find your own family pattern among these and hopefully you’ll be able to recognize the areas in which you may need to change or make adjustments to in order to better your relationship and make it stronger, or to completely change it.
Harmony.
He is largely strong and sun energy oriented.
She is mostly moon energy oriented.
In this relationship the man carries the majority if not all of the responsibility for the woman and their children. The woman carries the majority if not all of the responsibility for the emotional state of her family. This makes the relationship harmonious, with both parties working together and separately, utilizing their individual strengths to create a harmonious whole. He is the leader and she listens to him and they respect each other. In this type of family the man and the woman are satisfied and happy because each of them live according to their natural path and don’t try to deviate from it. In this type of family, the children are raised properly as boys and girls, and are taught how to be men and women. They don’t deny the gender and their role assigned and they follow their parents’ examples of how to execute that role. It doesn’t get better than that!
He is the moon.
He is moon energy oriented.
She is sun energy oriented.
Most of us have seen this type of couple before and it is not a rare occurrence. The woman has chosen to act like a man and the man is left with only a couple of options if he wants to stay in the relationship. He can either try to be the Sun he was meant to be until it “kills” him or he can give in and “live”. When the man chooses to stay home and try to take on the role of the Moon it might be nice for him, however his significant other is out there “battling with reality” and she has to be the breadwinner and provide. As you may know, this can work for a while. The family will have money and be comfortable, however after a few years go by, after a decade or so she will come to the stark realization that she has bitten off more than she can chew. The enormous responsibility will weigh down on her fragile shoulders and because she wasn’t built to take on that burden in the first place, she will eventually break. The man on the other hand at this point, is also nearing his breaking point. He is becoming more tired and lazy, lacking any motivation to achieve anything of substance, much less win a fight, or protect his family.
Sun kingdom.
He is sun energy oriented.
She is sun energy oriented.
This family is a battleground. They constantly fight for everything and try to compete and win roles, and are at constant odds as to which opinion is the right one. At the end of the day they are exhausted and miserable. The man doesn’t have any energy left in him to “battle” the world because he is constantly waging war on the home front. No emotional peace can be found because of the competition between the two of them, and because of that she can’t rely on him, and he can’t rely on her.
Moon kingdom.
He is moon energy oriented.
She is moon energy oriented.
I’ve only seen a few couples like this but both are so calm to the point where they are incredibly boring. The man and woman both live on autopilot, where neither of them care to achieve anything. It’s pretty sad and depressing. What kind of a man would choose to have Moon energy and live like this? He has a boring, everyday life, where nothing of substance ever happens and there’s no excitement of fun to be found. No one in their right mind would live like this.
The gender that we see less satisfied nowadays is women. This is because this woman goes onto a battlefield that is not hers to wage war on. This woman has a major issue with self-esteem, themselves, and the universe at large. So if I may ask you Sun Warriors out there, why are you doing this to yourselves? Why do you like to be miserable and unhappy? Happiness doesn’t take a lot, just go back to your nature, celebrate it and accept yourself for who you truly are. The cool clear moon that waxes and wanes in the sky, dependable, patient, and beautiful with her Sun protector who cherishes and loves her.
